One of the hardest decisions you'll ever face in life is choosing whether to walk away or try harder. No matter what you choose, you have to get ready on the consequences. Walk away or try harder, both need the strong heart. For something worthy, I'm willing to try harder. But after so many trials and the result remain fail, well...it's time to let it go. And there's only one option left, walk away.
Walk Away Is To Let It Go.
If you've ever had one of those times when you've clutched something else in your hand for a long time, only to look down and be surprised that you are still holding it long after you need for it had passed, you'll understand sometimes we get so use to holding that we forget to let it go. Sometimes, the hardest thing to let go of is the thing you never really had. So, don't forget what we hold, what we need to let go and what we really had in life.
I asked myself often, why is it so hard to let go of something that we really don't need it..?
Sometimes we wrap it well, and handle it with fully care. But, we forget how to surprise ourselves with the wrapped thing inside. We keep the memory for too long. We do hope it'll keep repeating to the end. Not every single journey will keep the same rhythm. For something that's not on the note, just let it be. Let it be natural. Let it be the part of your life that you have to face it. This is what we call life. Life is full of surprise. Full of something unexpected.
To let your life being natural, you have to be realistic. Something that needs your forgiveness, you have to forgive. Something that need you to live your life, you have to forget the past. The past isn't something that you can bring to the future. It can be a good teacher. But not a good friend. Learn to forgive and forget the past, because it don't belong to your future at all. Even though, forgiving doesn't erase the bitter past, but in the mean time, you're getting closer to your new chapter of life.
Once you decide to forget the past and walk away, it's time to let go of the anger of what could have been. Do not ever think about the worry of what might become. Accept the mistakes you think you've made and say it to yourself, "I'm human being. I'm not perfect. I make a mistake in my life, and I have my right to fix it." Open your heart to learn that nobody's perfect. Stop from put an expectation of others, their path isn't your own. Let go of the distractions that keep you from your path. Avoid the critics who don't understand. And the most important thing, let go of the life you had planned to live and move on!
Walk Away Is To Let It Go.
If you've ever had one of those times when you've clutched something else in your hand for a long time, only to look down and be surprised that you are still holding it long after you need for it had passed, you'll understand sometimes we get so use to holding that we forget to let it go. Sometimes, the hardest thing to let go of is the thing you never really had. So, don't forget what we hold, what we need to let go and what we really had in life.
I asked myself often, why is it so hard to let go of something that we really don't need it..?
Sometimes we wrap it well, and handle it with fully care. But, we forget how to surprise ourselves with the wrapped thing inside. We keep the memory for too long. We do hope it'll keep repeating to the end. Not every single journey will keep the same rhythm. For something that's not on the note, just let it be. Let it be natural. Let it be the part of your life that you have to face it. This is what we call life. Life is full of surprise. Full of something unexpected.
To let your life being natural, you have to be realistic. Something that needs your forgiveness, you have to forgive. Something that need you to live your life, you have to forget the past. The past isn't something that you can bring to the future. It can be a good teacher. But not a good friend. Learn to forgive and forget the past, because it don't belong to your future at all. Even though, forgiving doesn't erase the bitter past, but in the mean time, you're getting closer to your new chapter of life.
Once you decide to forget the past and walk away, it's time to let go of the anger of what could have been. Do not ever think about the worry of what might become. Accept the mistakes you think you've made and say it to yourself, "I'm human being. I'm not perfect. I make a mistake in my life, and I have my right to fix it." Open your heart to learn that nobody's perfect. Stop from put an expectation of others, their path isn't your own. Let go of the distractions that keep you from your path. Avoid the critics who don't understand. And the most important thing, let go of the life you had planned to live and move on!
p/s : doesn't matter that you let me go or I let you go...it's just written that we can't be together!
~ Dylla Abas ~
2 comments:
Im glad to see you able to walk away with that strong heart..with all the things you faced, you deserve better than the others. Proud of ya :)
Cheers,
-lil br0-
@Anonymous : thanks bro (",)
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